In terms of the big patches, the old standard and what’s in the manual is this:
This was largely because there wasn’t anything better for the cost. Recently though, a member has started producing much nicer ones that look a bit more like the actual logo:
His prices are pretty good and he does matching sets for the full outfits.
In terms of preference, mostly your choice on what you like. Mine is a different embroidery to both of these, but it works fine. If I had to do another though, it would probably be the second link.
For the beret, I’d at least ask about the beret flashes. The arm patch is just really huge on the front of a beret.
Where did you get your big patch from?